Love the Broken Love

When your heart is broken, after you have given love to the one you have held close to your heart, you have a choice to make. What do you do with that broken heart that was in love? Then, what do you choose – to forget the love you had initially for yourself before you met that person or to remember that love? Use the love you have for yourself to heal. We take care of others, yet we forget to continue to love ourselves. The reality is that love has never ended – only the perception of the way we view love, and the expectations we have had of a past relationship. Love always exists and we must not forget to remind ourselves of that. It is a process that we have to train ourselves until we remember that we have always been loving light, and we have created the illusions of tragedy to help us remember. Once you realize that these are all illusions, and that we have created these illusions in our way, we stop doing so. Then, we become the transmitters of our love.

So, what do you do with that “broken” love? Well, first, be proud of the love that you have loved. Do not label it as broken or as a love that is no more. It is a love that will always be because you have opened yourself to feel it. You have created the experience of that love. Imagine how much greater love can be when we start to realize that we are capable of experiencing it in even grander ways.

What did you choose? To keep the love or to pretend it never happened? It is a choice that we all make, but when choosing to deny the love, because of the pain, it will only bring more pain. You must not deny a love that was experienced, but embrace it as an experience you were capable of creating. The pain and sorrow of the breakup is normal, but when you dwell beyond the point of simply releasing it only accumulates to more pain. Then, something that was once meant as letting go becomes a stagnation period.

Accumulate the love experienced within your heart no matter the outcome. This will bring you closer to grander love and open your heart to greater possibilities. Just because something physical is gone does not mean it still should not exist in your heart. Love should always exist, be remembered, and accumulated – not pain and the number of times we have experienced suffering. The more you love, and fill your heart with love, the more your love is expanded. Continue to love the broken love, because it is your love that you have chosen to experience.

It is difficult to change the perception of moving from the thoughts of pain from your mind to the love of your heart, but all it requires is believing. So, once you have begun to believe in yourself and given love to yourself you will come to see the difference. The changes we are capable of making are the outcomes of the decisions we choose to make. Then, experiences become better and better. You hold the peace, you hold the love, and you hold the outcome. So, hold your hand out firm to the love you have created because there is more to come. There is always more because love never gives up. When love grows within your heart it will want to spread for all humanity. It will be enough just to feel the unconditional love you have always carried but never noticed within your heart. Get used to accumulating the love and not the pain, because even though we may see the same horizon the view will always be different in the days to come.

From my heart to yours,

Vlora Bekteshi